I opened the mail, and there was a notice inside saying there was a parcel waiting for me at the post office. A parcel?!?! 😀 From who? For what? I couldn’t wait! The post office was closed, so I had to wait until the next day. I was bursting with so much excitement I could hardly contain it. I patiently waited until I could get to the post office on my way home the next day. As I approached, I got butterflies in my stomach. What on earth could it be? I didn’t order anything, nor was I expecting anything. And aside form bills or flyers, I love getting mail. I love getting cards and stuff from my family. But a parcel?!?! I hand them my slip and so them my ID. They come back with not 1, but 2 large boxes!!!
I think my eyes bulged a little, like a cartoon. They were not heavy, so I was able to carry them home, which was about a 10 minute walk from the post office. While I was walking with these large parcels, I think I was smiling ear-to-ear the whole time, because I was getting funny looks from passers by. I was so ridiculously excited I was contemplating finding a public bathroom I could go into to open them, or a bench off to the side where I could tear into my goods. I thought, maybe I could turn around and go to the library, or sneak down a side street….but then it clicked. That would be insane. I told myself, “I am an adult, I can wait until I get home, which is in 2 minutes”. Somehow, I managed. I got home and opened up my Pandora’s Box.
Yay! It was Halloween goodies from my mom. She is so insanely thoughtful. It may not seem like raiding the dollar store and mailing the items is thoughtful…but it is. So very much. I was recently telling her that I got out some Halloween decorations, and she asked me if I had much. I replied by saying we had a fall table runner and some bowls, and some napkins. And I had some candy corn from the year before. It was insanely stale, but I put it out anyways for the look. I don’t really like candy corn- it gets stuck in my teeth, it is insanely sweet, don’t taste very good, and made with pure junk. But, for some reason unknown, I can’t stop eating the stale bowl of neon treats. I told her we were at the dollar store, and I wanted to buy some stuff, like a pair of socks, and maybe another trinket or something, but didn’t in order to stay on our tight budget. I thought maybe I could fashion a decorative garland or something out of coloured paper we had at home already. So what does my mom secretly do? She goes to the dollar store and gets all the things she thinks I would like, including festive socks. I love being festive with decorations and baking and cooking, and I especially love festive socks, and she knows how much it all makes me happy. Now, with regards to all things festive, I have specific personal rules about when to get the decor out and when I can start wearing my socks.
For Halloween and Easter: I can get decorations up no more then 2 weeks in advance, and no later then 1 week in advance. They must come down no later then 1 week after the holiday. I can only bake festive goodies a few days before the holiday in order to still be able to enjoy some on the actual holiday without them being gone or going stale. I can eat associated candy on cheat days leading up, but in small amounts. Most of the candy is reserved for a binge on the day of. I can start wearing my festive socks, if I wish up, to a week before, and the last day being the holiday itself.
For Christmas: While in St. Louis, we get our tree and decor up around Dec. 1, I start wearing my festive jammies and socks, watching Christmas movies, and listening to Christmas music. This is because we go to Canada mid-Decemeber, and want to enjoy the festivities in our home before we depart. While living in Canada, we do all this about 2 weeks before Christmas, maybe closer to 3 if we are planning on going away, so maximize our time at home basking in the glory of it all. No matter what, I stop wearing festive jammies and socks after Jan. 1, and that is also the last day for Christmas movies and music. And about a week, later, the decor comes down- which is quite depressing. Also, for Christmas movies, I save my favourite ones for the closest to Christmas, just because. And I only watch these during the holidays. Same goes for Halloween movies.
I guess everything is just because. There is no real logic to my madness. I realize I am a little insane about it. But, my theory is, if things are up too early, and taken down too late, and I watch festive movies all year round, then the actual holiday itself is less special. I love sitting with my family, with the Christmas tree lit, giggling and laughing playing Christmas music as we decorate. And it just wouldn’t be the same if we had been listening to the music for weeks already at that point. We always get a real tree, so the tree passes it’s prime by the time Christmas day rolls around if we get it too early, and then everyone gets annoyed finding dead pine needles everywhere instead of admiring the tree and enjoying family togetherness at breakfast on the cold morning of Christmas day.
And there is a glimpse of my personal insanity 😛
Back to it. Right away, I started putting up the Halloween decor. I was home by myself, bursting with excitement, and yearning for someone to be here to share it with me. I hope the Artist comes home soon!!! The Artist came in to grab a quite bite to eat before his next class as I was decorating our front door. The smile on his face told it all. He said how cute it was that my mom new I would love all this stuff, and the excitement he saw within me made him smile. Even though he is indifferent as to whether or not the door is decorated or the napkins are festive, he says how cute it is to see me all giddy. A warm hug, the gentlest, sweetest look in his eyes….Halloween decor aside, that is what truly made my day. If he can love me even more whilst seeing me in the middle of my holiday insanity (clearly ridiculous as I am sure you can remember from the above), then I truly have myself a keeper. He loves me for who I am, it is as simple as that.
Here is a glimpse of our new festivities 😀
This upcoming weekend we plan on carving pumpkins, and on Halloween day, we are going to maybe watch a scary movie and eat candy 😀 Halloween and Halloween II starring Jamie Lee Curtis- yes please! I also really want to watch Hocus Pocus, but can’t obtain a copy so far….so cross your fingers. This craving goes unsatisfied every year.
Nice things the Artist has done: He knows I like the bed made because it keeps our room looking tidy and comfy, so he made the bed. I left early in the morning, and he left later on, so when I came home it was a nice surprise! He complimented me on my knowledge of art, and was impressed! He also made this for the dining room, because I have been saying we need a side table in there:
Nice things I have done: Cleaned the house and did our laundry. Made the Artist his coffee this morning, and woke him with gentle kisses. Helped him with an assignment last night by proofreading it, giving my opinion, and reading it out loud to him.
I can’t wait until this weekend so we can carve pumpkins together. Here is a photo of our first pumpkin carving session together, mere weeks (maybe about 2?) before we started dating ❤
Happiness is contagious.